So, a few days ago I went to bed with a guy I've been seeing for a while. It was great fun but I think we got a bit carried away as I'm still a bit tender down below!
I haven't had much sex since having DS nearly 3 years ago - normal birth, second-degree tear that was stitched and healed but (apologies for TMI), I don't have much of a perineum left and the soreness is around that area.
So it could be that I just need to get used to being in the saddle, so to speak, and take it slow, use lube etc? Any positions to avoid? Would really appreciate some suggestions - I really fancy the guy but I also need to be able to walk the next day!!