I've name changed. Which I hope works.
Recently refound my sex drive after many years and have started to enjoy masturbating, which is not something I did much before. Then got myself a vibrator for when dp isn't in the mood.
I've been using it a couple of times a week recently, but now I'm finding it really difficult to orgasm any other way.
I lost the ability to come through PIV sex after having my 2 DCs but have always managed it using my fingers or DP has got me there with his fingers.
I have decided to have a break from the vibrator and tried without it myself a few days ago. It took bloody ages using my fingers. I used to get myself there in a few minutes, but it took a good 15-20 minutes. With dp last week it took forever too. I was on the edge for so long, but just took a lot to get the end result.
Had sex with dp last night and I just could not get there. He tried fingers and tongue but it wasn't happening. So very frustrating for both of us.
I don't want to rely on a vibrator for an orgasm.
How do I get myself back to the way it was?
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Started using a vibrator - now have trouble having orgasm any other way.
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DinnaFash · 24/07/2016 13:59
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