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What do you class as 'passionate sex'

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feetonthedashboard · 10/07/2016 14:15

My friend thinks it's something only people in relationships have. Borne of knowing each other and what they like in bed etc

I think you can have passionate sex with anyone if you gel enough with them.

Is it slow romantic loving sex? Or throwing each other around, biting and scratching sex?

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SaggyNaggy · 10/07/2016 14:18

Strap ons, lube, restraints, outfits, sweat, etc

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feetonthedashboard · 10/07/2016 14:19

Hmm, that's more kinky sex no?

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RatOnnaStick · 10/07/2016 14:20

Passionate sex = sex with passion.

I don't think the circumstances make one more valid than another. If you're having sex, and you feel passionate, you are, by definition, having passionate sex.

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RatOnnaStick · 10/07/2016 14:20

Too many commas in there sorry.

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TheyOnceSaid · 10/07/2016 14:21

Slow romantic loving sex Smile

SaggyNaggy aren't strap ons used for lesbian couples?

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feetonthedashboard · 10/07/2016 14:22

I think some men like them too Grin

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JoandMax · 10/07/2016 14:22

I would class as when you're desperate to get each other's pants off and get straight down to it!!

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TheNaze73 · 10/07/2016 14:23

Any sex, you're really into, is passionate. Surely??

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Arfarfanarf · 10/07/2016 14:23

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feetonthedashboard · 10/07/2016 14:24

It's hot, sweaty, heavy breathing, bitey, pulling hair type sex...that's passionate. I don't think it matters if you're having vanilla/kinky/ONS/long term relationship sex

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Surferjet · 10/07/2016 14:25

Sex the first few times with someone new.
Passion wears off pretty quickly. ( so I don't agree with your friend )

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feetonthedashboard · 10/07/2016 14:29

Arfarf, v true!

Yes surfer it's that can't wait to rip your clothes off feeling. Do people still feel that 10 years down the line?

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MyBreadIsEggy · 10/07/2016 14:30

I think passionate sex is when you're both totally into it, and absorbed in each other in the moment.
DH and I have been together 5 years, have a 14mo Dd and I'm 6 months pregnant with our second, and for no apparent reason had the most passionate, explosive sex we've ever had the other night.
He works away a lot (he's in the forces) so I don't know if it was just because we've been apart a lot recently, or whether it was because I'm pregnant and everything feels different "down there" Hmm but it was amazing, and we both just laid in bed after in a bubble of "wow"!

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feetonthedashboard · 10/07/2016 14:41

Shock sounds amazing!

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EarthboundMisfit · 10/07/2016 14:45

The following:

'I'm off to bed.'
'Fancy a shag?'
'Really? I'd have to brush my teeth.'
'....'
'Ah, go on then, just make it quick, I've got to be up at 5.'

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TheyOnceSaid · 10/07/2016 15:06

EarthboundMisfit Shock

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SaggyNaggy · 10/07/2016 15:11

TheyOnceSaid

And pegging men. Grin
Which cn be very passionate indeedy.

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talksensetome · 10/07/2016 15:15

I usually have more passionate sex in a brand new relationship. For me passionate sex is the aching feeling you get when you are just desperate to have them.
Definitley hair pulling biting scratching sex.

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TheyOnceSaid · 10/07/2016 15:16

SaggyNaggy

God no, any male that agrees to let a strap on be used on him, is definitely not straight!

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Natsku · 10/07/2016 15:22

When you do it without the telly on?

My OH has mentioned wanting to try strap-ons TheyOnceSaid, pretty sure he's straight

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SaggyNaggy · 10/07/2016 15:24

TheyOnceSaid

Weird, i best break up with my long term gf and let my daughter know then. You'd think, at 36, id have realised i wasnt straight by now. Oh well.

Grin

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ThoraGruntwhistle · 10/07/2016 15:25

Men who enjoy their bums being played with aren't secretly gay you know Hmm

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TheyOnceSaid · 10/07/2016 15:32

I believe they are, that's just my opinion, if I mentioned playing with my DPs bottom he would be highly offended

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SaggyNaggy · 10/07/2016 15:33

Then you believe wrong and have little to no knowledge of the male anatomy. I would suggest reading up on the "Male P spot"

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passmethewineplease · 10/07/2016 15:37

theyoncesaid Gay men also receive blowjobs? Does that make straight men who like BJs gay too?

Honestly how can anyone still think that any man who may be open to the idea of some ahem bum fun is gay and wishes to be with other men?! Hmm

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