What do you class as 'passionate sex'

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feetonthedashboard Sun 10-Jul-16 14:15:08

My friend thinks it's something only people in relationships have. Borne of knowing each other and what they like in bed etc

I think you can have passionate sex with anyone if you gel enough with them.

Is it slow romantic loving sex? Or throwing each other around, biting and scratching sex?

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SaggyNaggy Sun 10-Jul-16 14:18:11

Strap ons, lube, restraints, outfits, sweat, etc

feetonthedashboard Sun 10-Jul-16 14:19:08

Hmm, that's more kinky sex no?

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RatOnnaStick Sun 10-Jul-16 14:20:23

Passionate sex = sex with passion.

I don't think the circumstances make one more valid than another. If you're having sex, and you feel passionate, you are, by definition, having passionate sex.

RatOnnaStick Sun 10-Jul-16 14:20:59

Too many commas in there sorry.

TheyOnceSaid Sun 10-Jul-16 14:21:52

Slow romantic loving sex smile

SaggyNaggy aren't strap ons used for lesbian couples?

feetonthedashboard Sun 10-Jul-16 14:22:27

I think some men like them too grin

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JoandMax Sun 10-Jul-16 14:22:49

I would class as when you're desperate to get each other's pants off and get straight down to it!!

TheNaze73 Sun 10-Jul-16 14:23:19

Any sex, you're really into, is passionate. Surely??

Arfarfanarf Sun 10-Jul-16 14:23:34

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

feetonthedashboard Sun 10-Jul-16 14:24:06

It's hot, sweaty, heavy breathing, bitey, pulling hair type sex...that's passionate. I don't think it matters if you're having vanilla/kinky/ONS/long term relationship sex

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Surferjet Sun 10-Jul-16 14:25:18

Sex the first few times with someone new.
Passion wears off pretty quickly. ( so I don't agree with your friend )

feetonthedashboard Sun 10-Jul-16 14:29:58

Arfarf, v true!

Yes surfer it's that can't wait to rip your clothes off feeling. Do people still feel that 10 years down the line?

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MyBreadIsEggy Sun 10-Jul-16 14:30:09

I think passionate sex is when you're both totally into it, and absorbed in each other in the moment.
DH and I have been together 5 years, have a 14mo Dd and I'm 6 months pregnant with our second, and for no apparent reason had the most passionate, explosive sex we've ever had the other night.
He works away a lot (he's in the forces) so I don't know if it was just because we've been apart a lot recently, or whether it was because I'm pregnant and everything feels different "down there" hmm but it was amazing, and we both just laid in bed after in a bubble of "wow"!

feetonthedashboard Sun 10-Jul-16 14:41:29

shock sounds amazing!

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EarthboundMisfit Sun 10-Jul-16 14:45:39

The following:

'I'm off to bed.'
'Fancy a shag?'
'Really? I'd have to brush my teeth.'
'Ah, go on then, just make it quick, I've got to be up at 5.'

TheyOnceSaid Sun 10-Jul-16 15:06:17

EarthboundMisfit shock

SaggyNaggy Sun 10-Jul-16 15:11:45


And pegging men. grin
Which cn be very passionate indeedy.

talksensetome Sun 10-Jul-16 15:15:44

I usually have more passionate sex in a brand new relationship. For me passionate sex is the aching feeling you get when you are just desperate to have them.
Definitley hair pulling biting scratching sex.

TheyOnceSaid Sun 10-Jul-16 15:16:37


God no, any male that agrees to let a strap on be used on him, is definitely not straight!

Natsku Sun 10-Jul-16 15:22:50

When you do it without the telly on?

My OH has mentioned wanting to try strap-ons TheyOnceSaid, pretty sure he's straight

SaggyNaggy Sun 10-Jul-16 15:24:46


Weird, i best break up with my long term gf and let my daughter know then. You'd think, at 36, id have realised i wasnt straight by now. Oh well.


ThoraGruntwhistle Sun 10-Jul-16 15:25:51

Men who enjoy their bums being played with aren't secretly gay you know hmm

TheyOnceSaid Sun 10-Jul-16 15:32:00

I believe they are, that's just my opinion, if I mentioned playing with my DPs bottom he would be highly offended

SaggyNaggy Sun 10-Jul-16 15:33:35

Then you believe wrong and have little to no knowledge of the male anatomy. I would suggest reading up on the "Male P spot"

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