teach me to dance sexy

(9 Posts)
Favouriteworstnightmare Thu 09-Jun-16 23:02:17

Don't be too confident - I ended up pregnant - ha!

Pinkheart5915 Thu 09-Jun-16 22:33:21

I do highly recommend pole dancing, made me feel incredible and confident

DailyMailGOFuckOff Thu 09-Jun-16 22:31:54

I'm going to have push through my timidity and book lessons I think. Pole would be amazing lol

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DoubleCarrick Thu 09-Jun-16 21:32:48

Someone told me something about how to move my hips when dancing.

Its a bit crude, sorry. She said when you're moving, imaging your "grinding a cock" (her words) apparently that's a method to learn to move your hips.

grin

I did practice it privately. It worked. I can now move my hips but am still a crap dancer!!

blush

Pinkheart5915 Thu 09-Jun-16 21:28:06

Pole dancing lessons?.

I done them before ds and they were great made me feel sexy, dh enjoyed the results wink

Favouriteworstnightmare Thu 09-Jun-16 21:20:59

Burlesque is amazing. V empowering!

DailyMailGOFuckOff Thu 09-Jun-16 17:46:57

I have some dance ability, not sure I have rhythm as such but I don't look stupid dancing in other styles, I'm just very vanilla and would like to sex it up a bit

I'm sure there would be dance classes near me, just a bit afraid of being the new girl who hasn't got a clue

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KurtseyAllslop Thu 09-Jun-16 17:08:06

Do you have natural rhythm?

Often part of the reason people can't dance is a lack of 'smoothness' in the way the body moves. This usually comes naturally or not but you can practice. It's all about relaxing the muscles that are usually quite 'stiff' like hips, knees, ankles, shoulders. I can't really explain it but you need to try and move these muscles as though they're made of liquid. Sorry, not helpful!

I'd also say start off small. Give yourself one or two moves to perfect over a couple of weeks. Practise on your own every day in front of the mirror. In a fortnight, add a couple more moves, then a couple more etc.

There are some ace instructional videos on Youtube example

Have you looked to see if there are any dance classes near you?

I go to a Soca class where the teacher, who's actually one of my best friends, gives us a 'move' to perfect over the week. The following week at at the class we have to show her (as a group) how good we are. It's fabulous. Of course some people don't practise and she doesn't humiliate people who don't practise but it's good to just focus on one move and get that right.

Are there dance classes near you?

DailyMailGOFuckOff Thu 09-Jun-16 16:51:36

I look like a clown. I cannot twerk. Please help.

I would really like to surprise DP.

Help?!

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