Vibrators

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Canihaveanamechange Sat 07-May-16 12:40:33

blush I bought the moregasm rabbit a few weeks ago, I decided to use it at the beginning of the week. I would describe it as average at best but am sure that as I get used to using it that could change. The embarrassing thing here is that I went to use it again on the same night and it was too "much" for me, I was sore and if I moved it blush It wasn't giving me good sensations. It would have been close to painful but wasn't at that point yet.
When I used it the first time at the point of orgasm it was quiet sore after a couple of seconds and I had to pull it out, do you think it could be me? Has anyone else experienced this with this toy? Or any other?
I was looking forward to this toy, I've heard rave reviews about it and haven't been able to use it since. It's really been on my mind.

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RockMeMomma Sat 07-May-16 12:51:19

You might be sore because your body was tense, when inserting it/using it. It will take time to relax. Try using some lube with it. Using new batteries make it very intense too.

Canihaveanamechange Sat 07-May-16 13:24:31

Thanks for replying, It had only just come off charge, I was using lube, I'm worried I've spent too much money on something I'll not be able to enjoy.

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blusty Sat 07-May-16 13:53:38

I'm not familiar with that model but my experience with rabbit vibes is that they are too long. I think I'm average size in that dept. I like my G spot and clit stimulated at the same time (I sometimes use 2 bullet vibes at the same time - one inside and one planted on my clit). With rabbit type vibes I find that to get the ears placed on my clit correctly I have to insert the shaft too deep - I don't like the sensation of very deep penetration (I think it touches my cervix). I recently invested in a Durex rabbit that promised it was designed for G spot stimulation - but even this is too long. The main shaft rubs inside OK but about 5 inches deep - my G spot is about 1.5 inches in.
Has anyone ever found a "short" rabbit - it is as if I need a stumpy one.
The Durex one does have good ears though - I wish I could cut it down!

haveacupoftea Sun 08-May-16 19:22:55

Is there an option to reduce vibration intensity? Turn it down low?

Canihaveanamechange Sun 08-May-16 21:40:45

There were options to lower it, but they didn't really do anything for me blush so I had to have the stronger vibes

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wallybantersjunkbox Sun 08-May-16 22:39:52

Sore in the inside or outside?

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Canihaveanamechange Mon 09-May-16 18:33:46

It's difficult to describe I came and then the soreness almost overwhelmed me. I can't pinpoint where it was exactly suffice to say I just had to get it out of me. It wasn't pleasant. And when I tried the second time the soreness was definitely inside. I felt as though I wanted to pee but it was a cystitis type feeling and I just couldn't keep going it was too uncomfortable.

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wallybantersjunkbox Mon 09-May-16 19:03:48

I find that new silicone substance being used on vibrators a bit dragging..? Did you use a lube?

Canihaveanamechange Mon 09-May-16 19:37:58

I did I used the recommended one I can't think what could have caused this unless it really was too much for me? Is that possible?

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OuchLegoHurts Fri 13-May-16 22:53:10

Were you already turned on when you started? Sometimes if you're not really ready it can feel too much so maybe try some other stuff first to get you a bit more ready?

Canihaveanamechange Sat 14-May-16 12:52:04

That is very likely, I didn't have long to really enjoy it and had to make the most of what time I had blush do you think this would affect me at orgasm though?

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OuchLegoHurts Sat 28-May-16 15:21:16

I'm not sure...but perhaps you came before your body was really ready for it?? Try again when you have more time maybe, I find having a while to 'build up' to using it helps me, I like to read some erotica and play with my nipples before starting to touch myself down there

Favouriteworstnightmare Sat 28-May-16 16:22:28

I feel the same! I took delivery of the moregasm move yesterday and spent the afternoon / evening / night / this morning getting acquainted blush this afternoon I feel quite bruised and sore and urge to wee frequently, hoping it will clear asap as I've only got 12 hours of peace and me time left!

(Reading that it sounds like I'm a rampant nympho - I'm not just enjoying having the house empty!)

Guiltypleasures001 Sat 28-May-16 16:38:29

Um a couple of things

Did you wash the vibrator after taking it out of the packaging if yes did you thoroughly rinse any cleaning agents off.

Is the vibrator made of a material with latex in it, and you could be sensitive to this.

I'd recommend using the vibe without the vibrating internally and see if you get the same reaction,
If yes I'de say maybe your allergic to the vibrator material.

Canihaveanamechange Sun 12-Jun-16 15:58:36

Hi all,
I have tried all the suggestions on this thread and have found that I needed time to warm up properly and that I need to have the "ears" on a lower setting, anything too high and it becomes sore again, it seems I did this to myself. Thank you all for your comments I don't get to use it often so thought I'd check in now I've found the solution.

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