(12 Posts)
WhatMakesYouBad Thu 04-Feb-16 15:50:27

Just wondering what you use and when do you use it? ie...half way through? Before you start? I think I'm going to get some but not sure how to initiate it blush

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0phelia Thu 04-Feb-16 15:56:35

Is it for vag sex? Apply the lube yourself, putting a bit up inside beforehand.

Then when your man is there, you can squeeze a bit out and put it on his self. It heightens sensitivity so can be a g turn on.

If it's for A sex, you will need more than 1 application so you need to have the lube handy at all times. Applying to both him and yourself.

0phelia Thu 04-Feb-16 15:59:31

I use Durex lube but really you need to find what works best for you because some lubes can react and cause a weird dryness depending on your own chemistry and ph levels etc.

WhatMakesYouBad Thu 04-Feb-16 16:17:40

It's just for vag sex, don't know why I'm embarrass, I've been with DH 8 years this year! I herd coconut oil from Holland and Barrett is good,

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ALaughAMinute Thu 04-Feb-16 19:09:25

Never tried coconut oil but lube is good for mutual masturbation and is safe to use with a condom. KY jelly is good but there are loads of different kinds on the market.

gatewalker Thu 04-Feb-16 21:06:19

Coconut oil is fabulous, but for anyone using it, it can't be used with latex products.

PrimeDirective Thu 04-Feb-16 23:17:33

Sliquid from Lovehoney is my favourite.
We put it on as needed - usually from early on as the slippery feel is fabulous.


MarkRuffaloCrumble Thu 04-Feb-16 23:35:15

I was going to suggest coconut oil. We used to use Durex strawberry but it can get a bit sticky - was still better than some others - but the natural feel of oil is much nicer. Dp puts it on me as soon as he starts touching me down there and adds more as he goes along if required. It's good as a moisturiser so doesn't need washing off afterwards. I also use a bit on him too, tastes nicer than lube! Some of them smell more coconutty than others, so try a few out if you're not fond of coconut. I love it, it's like eating a bounty wink

MarkRuffaloCrumble Thu 04-Feb-16 23:36:21

And yes, mutual masturbation or piv occasionally. People assume it's just for anal or for if you're not turned on etc, but for us it just makes everything glide more easily under your finger tips.

WhatMakesYouBad Fri 05-Feb-16 08:39:26

Piv ?

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PrimeDirective Fri 05-Feb-16 10:45:16

PIV = Penis In Vagina

Mrswinkler Sat 06-Feb-16 09:22:48

I bought some Yes from Holland and Barratt. It's lovely, no synthetics and good for a healthy vag!

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