He was watching TV whilst giving me an orgasm..

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bumbleclat Mon 25-Jan-16 21:59:18

Sorry if TMI but am feeling uneasy about this...

My lovely attentive, selfless (in bed) DH was stroking my back and bum etc yesterday while we were watching TV.

Things got a bit more err intimate and he was stimulating my clitoris I was so very turned on by this but at one point I looked over my shoulder and he was watching the TV whilst doing this.

I like it if we are both really into it, not just him mindlessly giving me an orgasm but I was so on the brink of coming that I just let my concerns go and we ended up having sex, he then had a late night where I went to bed early and I didn't see him until tonight when I got in from work.

Something about it has made me feel really sad, like we've lost something almost.

Do you think I should talk to him about it?

Am I being silly for being upset?
Thanks

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gamerchick Mon 25-Jan-16 22:03:56

Was he watching the tv while you had sex?

IsItIorAreTheOthersCrazy Mon 25-Jan-16 23:12:09

I would be upset but I think you should talk to him. Don't let it fester - this is exactly the kind of thing that will pop into your head mid-sex session and ruin it for you.

I haven't had this but I do remember looking at DH once and he had his eyes scrunched tightly closed and it threw me off completely. When I asked him why he said it makes the feel of me more intense because it's the only thing he's concentrating on.

Maybe he was looking in that direction but not watching iyswim?

LilacSpunkMonkey Mon 25-Jan-16 23:13:16

Two threads?

NeedAScarfForMyGiraffe Mon 25-Jan-16 23:26:51

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

bumbleclat Tue 26-Jan-16 12:25:38

Thanks, I think I'm just emotional today

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PrimeDirective Thu 28-Jan-16 23:08:16

If it's a one off and everything else in the relationship is good, then I really wouldn't worry about it. Mention to him that you were upset by it, but I don't think it's worth getting into an argument about it.

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cdtaylornats Thu 28-Jan-16 23:23:03

Who says men can't multi-task

0phelia Sat 30-Jan-16 14:34:09

I'm sure he was aware of you in the most complete sense, but his eyes were wandering over to the TV because it

0phelia Sat 30-Jan-16 14:35:16

Sorry
because it was on.

If it means so much to you turn the TV off in future. !

bumbleclat Tue 02-Feb-16 07:21:03

Thanks thats reassuring!
All else is good smile

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Helmetbymidnight Thu 11-Feb-16 22:09:55

It depends what he was watching smile

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