Bucket fanny or micropenis?

[aircrafthangerfanny]

Arghhh help me. New man & we did the long awaited deed this weekend. I realllly like him & was reallllly looking forward to it, but when it came to it, I wondered 'Is it in?' I honestly could barely feel it. SO disappointed. Now I'm left thinking either I've got a fanny like an aircraft hanger dc2 was an enormous baby Or he's realllly small I did give him some oral & relaxed it was somewhere between my little & ring finger but I hoped it would rise to the occasion. Do you think it's 'first time with a new woman nerves?' If it is then hopefully we can work around this. If not, I'm very disappointed because he's so nice in all other ways. Of course the other possibility is that my fanny's the size of an aircraft hanger & he can't touch the sides! even his fingers weren't quite enough for me Why do I never meet the men with dongs hung like draught excluders? Ohhhh, what can I do?

[aircrafthangerfanny]

we tried EVERY position

[Gliblet]

It does sound on the small side. Perhaps given some time to try different positions and different things (ie other than penetration) you could have a good sex life regardless though? At the risk of sounding smug/ungrateful DH is quote well hung but also skilled in other ways and tbh I could mostly take or leave PIV without feeling like I'm missing out...

[Sallyingforth]

Well there are two relevant sayings:

Size isn't everything

Practice makes perfect

so do keep trying!

[RealityCheque]

Did you have your eyes closed?

What size did it LOOK?

[ginorwine]

Get him to do what I think is the c a t position coaital alignment ? Ie he lifts himself a bit higher and there will be pressure between you so that size won't matter as it will rub .

[southeastastra]

jeez has mn come to this

[KinkyAfro]

Come to what southeastastra? This is the sex board, if you don't like it don't read it

[southeastastra]

the op is hardly written to be read by anyone but an idiot

[southeastastra]

jeez at least write to be read by a person that doesn't rely on twatty emoticons

[timelytess]

and...squeeze.

[VoldysGoneMouldy]

You gave him oral... Did you not look at it?!

[LaurieFairyCake]

If it's only a tiny bit bigger than your smallest finger then yes, it's very very small.

Unless it's 10 inches circumference - you'd definitely feel that.

If you like him you will just have to do other things.

I went out with a man with a very small penis and it didn't bother me as we had great fun doing other things.

[SpecialistSnowflake]

Well, you just described the size in your OP. Smaller than a ring finger is small.

But you can do other things... I've never orgasmed through sex anyway!

[ClityClityBangBang]

If you really like him then size won't matter,foreplay is the way forward

[wishingchair]

I've been with a man with a small penis - bigger than little finger though - maybe 4-5 x 1 inch. Anyway, couldn't really feel him inside me (and have same concerns over bucket fanny) but due to where he positioned himself (on top, lying heavily on me) it was pretty awesome sex.

[BartholinsSister]

Sounds bigger than a micropenis, they're pretty much acorn size.

[evrybuddy]

"I did give him some oral & relaxed it was somewhere between my little & ring finger"

If 'relaxed' means soft then, based on my ring finger, is that about 3 inches soft?

[BartholinsSister]

Unless she meant the thickness.

[justonesherryformedicinalpurpo]

Sorry southeast just trying to understand why you have commented just to criticise? Utterly pointless and unkind.

As others have said OP, don't just rely on PIV. Go crazy with foreplay and once you get closer you can experiment with toys? DP and I have used a couple of cock rings before and they weren't amazing, although they were cheap, so perhaps going forward you could invest in a good one and that way you can both enjoy sex.