What to give the Dom who has everything he wants?

[D0mWhoHasEverything]

I'm relatively new to the D/s scene; my Dom is far more experienced than I.

I want to give him something special for Christmas, but I have no idea what. He has enough disposable income that he can - and does - buy him/us anything he wants. It doesn't have to be directly sexual. We don't live together, so items need to be small enough that he can easily take them home with him.

Any suggestions? I'd love to hear from subs who have thought of unusual ideas that their Doms have loved.

Thank you!

[Bailey101]

What's your budget? Do you want your gift to tie into your relationship or would you be happy getting something to do with a hobby or interest he has?

[Branleuse]

do you want it to be something related to your bdsm thing? lock and key type matching jewellery? Would that be going too far if youre new to it all?

If its a new relationship, id probably just keep it simple and non sexual. SOmething youve made?

[D0mWhoHasEverything]

Thank you for replying.

I have a couple of hundred pounds in my budget. It was his birthday recently, and his gifts from me were associated with his hobbies, so I quite like the idea of at least some of them this time round being related to our D/s relationship.

I was thinking of something to do with restraint. He's been holding back, I know, for fear of frightening me - but so far I've matched him perfectly.

[D0mWhoHasEverything]

But something I've made would be great too.

[Drew64]

What about a tattoo?

[TheoriginalLEM]

I like the idea of a tattoo (maybe one for each of you) but only if this is going to be a permanent relationship!

[Branleuse]

what about something like a couple of nights away, maybe a room at the pelirocco, like krakens lair or nookii. Ive never been, but always fancied it for a filthy weekend

[Kerantli]

Are there any soft limits you both have that you can push? (I am NOT advocating pushing hard limits by the way, I'm a sub myself, so know limits are very personal).

If there are, what about getting something to do with that?

I also second something you've made as well. I know my Mr loves it when I make Him something as it means I've been thinking of Him when it comes to birthdays/christmas.

What about something like this as a funny little present? I have the other version (IOU Hot Sex), and the couple that I've opened has already given my Mr ideas.

[SolidGoldBrass]

Well I would be thrilled if my sub gave me this for Xmas but that may not work for everyone.

Or how about kinky dice?

Actually, OP, roughly whereabouts do you live? There is the Brighton Twisted market this Sunday and the BBB the Sunday after, which is in Birmingham - both are good places to get interesting gifts for kinky people.

[ImperialBlether]

Please, please, don't use a capital for 'him'. The symbolism of that is awful not to mention it makes me cringe.

[SolidGoldBrass]

Oh I hate the capitalisation/not-capitalizing, too. Sorry Kerantli.

[Kerantli]

I hadn't even realised I'd done it, too ingrained from writing BDSM erotica it seems!

[FreeSpirit89]

I've been with my Dom a year nearly, he always sends me a horny devil emoji in messages. So I'm intending to get him the pillow for that :)