What to give the Dom who has everything he wants?

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D0mWhoHasEverything Sat 28-Nov-15 13:35:25

I'm relatively new to the D/s scene; my Dom is far more experienced than I.

I want to give him something special for Christmas, but I have no idea what. He has enough disposable income that he can - and does - buy him/us anything he wants. It doesn't have to be directly sexual. We don't live together, so items need to be small enough that he can easily take them home with him.

Any suggestions? I'd love to hear from subs who have thought of unusual ideas that their Doms have loved.

Thank you!

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Bailey101 Sat 28-Nov-15 14:12:26

What's your budget? Do you want your gift to tie into your relationship or would you be happy getting something to do with a hobby or interest he has?

Branleuse Sat 28-Nov-15 14:15:47

do you want it to be something related to your bdsm thing? lock and key type matching jewellery? Would that be going too far if youre new to it all?

If its a new relationship, id probably just keep it simple and non sexual. SOmething youve made?

D0mWhoHasEverything Sat 28-Nov-15 16:11:25

Thank you for replying.

I have a couple of hundred pounds in my budget. It was his birthday recently, and his gifts from me were associated with his hobbies, so I quite like the idea of at least some of them this time round being related to our D/s relationship.

I was thinking of something to do with restraint. He's been holding back, I know, for fear of frightening me - but so far I've matched him perfectly.

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D0mWhoHasEverything Sat 28-Nov-15 16:12:32

But something I've made would be great too.

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Drew64 Tue 01-Dec-15 16:16:32

What about a tattoo?

TheoriginalLEM Tue 01-Dec-15 16:18:33

I like the idea of a tattoo (maybe one for each of you) but only if this is going to be a permanent relationship!


0verNow Tue 01-Dec-15 19:50:36

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Branleuse Tue 01-Dec-15 20:02:50

what about something like a couple of nights away, maybe a room at the pelirocco, like krakens lair or nookii. Ive never been, but always fancied it for a filthy weekend

Kerantli Mon 07-Dec-15 15:23:55

Are there any soft limits you both have that you can push? (I am NOT advocating pushing hard limits by the way, I'm a sub myself, so know limits are very personal).

If there are, what about getting something to do with that?

I also second something you've made as well. I know my Mr loves it when I make Him something as it means I've been thinking of Him when it comes to birthdays/christmas.

What about something like this as a funny little present? I have the other version (IOU Hot Sex), and the couple that I've opened has already given my Mr ideas.

SolidGoldBrass Tue 08-Dec-15 17:28:51

Well I would be thrilled if my sub gave me this for Xmas but that may not work for everyone.

Or how about kinky dice?

Actually, OP, roughly whereabouts do you live? There is the Brighton Twisted market this Sunday and the BBB the Sunday after, which is in Birmingham - both are good places to get interesting gifts for kinky people.

ImperialBlether Tue 08-Dec-15 17:32:15

Please, please, don't use a capital for 'him'. The symbolism of that is awful not to mention it makes me cringe.

SolidGoldBrass Wed 09-Dec-15 20:07:29

Oh I hate the capitalisation/not-capitalizing, too. Sorry Kerantli.

Kerantli Wed 09-Dec-15 20:09:31

I hadn't even realised I'd done it, too ingrained from writing BDSM erotica it seems!

FreeSpirit89 Sun 13-Dec-15 08:25:04

I've been with my Dom a year nearly, he always sends me a horny devil emoji in messages. So I'm intending to get him the pillow for that smile

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