Tail wearing butt plugs???

(9 Posts)
Zoeee88 Sun 11-Oct-15 00:43:29

Okay, this sounds weird I guess but here goes...
My relatively new boyfriend (1 month) has told me that he finds women wearing tails sexy. Its an entirely new thing to me, and whilst he has stressed to me that there is no pressure for me to do it and he fancies me sexually without, I'm interested in trying it. Except...I've never done anything anal based before.
I want to sort of just turn up and surprise him with me wearing a tail, except that I have NO IDEA how butt plug sizes or the technicalities work.

Can anyone offer any advice?

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Epilepsyhelp Sun 11-Oct-15 00:44:46

It hardly sounds like it's going to be bloody technical!!!

scatterthenuns Sun 11-Oct-15 00:47:14

I think if you are new to anal it is a very big ask, and not something I'd be asking only a month in.

My advice would be (as someone quite-to-very experienced in this 'department') is to build up anal play very slowly. Fingers, then slim toys. A tail butt plug isn't a starter toy (I've never seen one thin enough to be considered as such) and your body does need the practice and trial and error time to adapt.

Zoeee88 Sun 11-Oct-15 20:30:26

Thanks scatter, thats really helpful smile

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pocketsaviour Sun 11-Oct-15 22:26:47

If you have a look on Lovehoney they have a section for butt plugs, look under "Butt plug sets" or "butt plug beginners". They do a "get started" kit. I would use that or similar and get used to it before attempting to move up in sizes.

They also sell the tail butt plugs when and if you feel ready smile

cdtaylornats Mon 12-Oct-15 23:15:31

Why stop at a tail

PassiveAgressiveQueen Thu 15-Oct-15 17:23:19

but this to me would be a red flag, one very early to mention this in a relationship, and tail wearers are often subs/pets and there is a whole "thing" that goes with it.

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WallyBantersJunkBox Fri 30-Oct-15 07:10:12

He means one of those plugs with the horsehair tail I guess. They can look kind of cool. But maybe try a small plug of your choosing first if you want.

I have a small metallic one with a diamond at the end. That's quite sexy and you can turn up a lot easier with that. It is secure too so it won't slip inside.

I do experience much harder orgasms with it I must admit.

GloriaHotcakes Sun 08-Nov-15 22:46:23

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

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