Don't like oral

[NotSleepyAtAll]

I don't like oral. Is this normal? I will do it now and then but don't relish it like I did in my early 20s.

I have a good sex life but can't help feel that something is missing.

How can I like it more? Is it ok that I don't want to do it that often?

[Earthbound]

Giving or receiving?

Whichever it is, you do realise it's ok not to like it don't you? If you don't like it then don't do it. It really is that simple.

[Anon15]

Absolutely acceptable to not like it

[AnyFucker]

You don't have to give or receive anything you don't want to

nothing wrong with that

[NotSleepyAtAll]

Ok, thanks. I guess I feel like it's such a normal part of sex that why wouldn't I.

[queencori]

use flavoured lube

[Ledkr]

Well it's not my favourite pastime but I do it as part of the pleasure giving excercise that sex is.
I would however, never do anything I really hated.

[goodasitgets]

I like giving, hate receiving. Never been a problem, I just tell partner I don't enjoy it

[NotSleepyAtAll]

-- TMI Warning --

I don't mind if it's 'fresh from the shower sex' but 'sex after a long day at work' just turns my stomach, giving or receiving.

I think previous partners have been a little more considerate with the former, but this is a decade long marriage and standards have slipped somewhat.

Perhaps I'll work on that and see if things improve... and I'll try some flavoured lube!

[NotSleepyAtAll]

Sorry didn't mean to cross out my warning!

[VernonGodLittle]

So are saying that your partner is happy to receive oral if he's a bit "savoury" in the underpant area? I wouldn't enjoy it in those circumstances. I'd be a bit pissed off actually, that he cba to make the effort of 5mins in the shower before sex. Have you told him you'd prefer him to be freshly showered? (But surely he should know this anyway, being an adult)

I'm not sure flavoured lube will make it better - like masking whiffy pits with deodorant...

And you shouldn't ever have to do something sexually that "turns your stomach".

[VixxFace]

Always a shower before oral sex (giving and receiving ) , not suprised you don't enjoy it.

[SpendSpendSpend]

I really like oral both giving and receiving.

However i would not go near a willy that has not been washed within half hour of me going near it. I also wont allow dh to do oral on me unless i ve washed within half hour.

[SpendSpendSpend]

Also dh get me to smell his willy when its been washed if oral is on the cards. If its not up to my standards he washes it again no problem

[blahblahblah72]

SpendSpendSpend I agree with you completely but the fact that you smell it has made me nearly choke laughing!!

[AnyFucker]

did we need to know that ? really?

[amothersplaceisinthewrong]

Nothing wrong with not liking it,. DH knows he has to be superclean, prefereably with mouthwash on his knob..... (which he does and has done for decades!)

[CaptainAnkles]

Wait, what?, mouthwash on a knob?Is that a thing nowadays? Don't most people just make sure they're clean before they get up to anything? It's just good manners.

[MistressMerryWeather]

Just don't do it if you don't want too.

Would it be a big deal if you said no, or would your DP get huffy?

[Ledkr]

Mouthwash??!!!

I'm getting old I really am

[MistressMerryWeather]

Doesn't it... Ya' know, burn?

[crispandfruity]

What about spontaneity? My libido would shrivel if my DH said ' here's your half hour warning, I've just mouthwashed me knob'

[ScrambledEggAndToast]

Mouthwash on his knob!! Haha, that's a joke, right??!!

[MistressMerryWeather]

Crispandfruity :o.

'I'm minty fresh bey-beh'

Noooo...

[flatbellyfella]

Now we need to know what brand of mouthwash has the widest opening, for dick dipping.