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What do you consider to be vanilla?

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quirkycutekitch · 16/06/2015 18:14

And what's the next step up from vanilla & has it got a name?

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pocketsaviour · 16/06/2015 19:25

Next step: "a bit kinky"
Next step: "kinky"
Next step: "really kinky"
Next step: "lifestyle fetishist"

I think everyone's line is different, but to me vanilla would be
PIV sex, any position
Anal sex
Oral sex
Mutual masturbation
Talking dirty/sexting/etc

I'd probably put myself in the "a bit kinky" category, with things like
Rimming
Using toys together
Threesomes
Pegging
Light spanking
Facials

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Orangeanddemons · 16/06/2015 20:24

What's a facial?

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NiceAcorns · 16/06/2015 20:26

What's pegging?

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MyGastIsFlabbered · 16/06/2015 20:26

Anal definitely isn't in the vanilla category for me but I'm definitely a bit of a prude.

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crispandfruity · 16/06/2015 20:28

What the hell is REALLY kinky?!!

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Orangeanddemons · 16/06/2015 20:31

I don't think anal is vanilla either

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Waitingfordolly · 16/06/2015 20:32

I'm not a prude and I don't know where I'd be on the kinky scale but I wouldn't say anal is vanilla either though maybe there is a difference according to age on that one.

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lilacblossomtime · 16/06/2015 20:32

Raspberry ripple?

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CatsAreLikeChocolates · 16/06/2015 20:33


Wink

Sorry, as you were.
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HermioneWeasley · 16/06/2015 20:36

Vanilla = missionary position in the dark

Anything else = pervert

Joking Grin

Just marking my place.

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beavington · 16/06/2015 20:37

Fucking hell rimming is a 'bit kinky'?? Im vanilla to the extreme in that case, i dont want to lick anyones arsehole

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VixxFace · 16/06/2015 20:37

anal is not vanilla!

To me vanilla is basic sex, no toys no games.

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VixxFace · 16/06/2015 20:37

What pegging?

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HermioneWeasley · 16/06/2015 20:39

Pegging is shagging your male partner in the arse with a sex toy.

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Orangeanddemons · 16/06/2015 20:41

What's a facial though?

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ShatnersBassoon · 16/06/2015 20:42

I think the first response is unlikely to tally with the majority's idea of mundane sex Confused

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missqwerty · 16/06/2015 20:42

Vanilla is just a stupid word for normal sex. To me that's missionary and bit boring

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beavington · 16/06/2015 20:43

I thought facial was cumming on the others face? Could be wrong?

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 16/06/2015 20:44

Kinky is using a feather, perverted is using the whole chicken. Grin

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Kundry · 16/06/2015 20:44

WTF is really kinky if anal is vanilla?

Vanilla is missionary, lights on if you are feeling daring

Anything else = kinky

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LuisSuarezTeeth · 16/06/2015 20:45

Cinnamon probably.
Then Cumin
Oh wait^
Grin

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hospitalworry · 16/06/2015 20:46

I'm very vanilla
It would not include anal

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Janethegirl · 16/06/2015 20:53

Didn't think I was particularly vanilla, but I don't do anal. Quite happy with sex toys but def not pegging. I'd say vanilla was missionary position in the dark though.

Thanks Hermione for the definition.

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Koalafications · 16/06/2015 20:58

I would have thought vanilla was PIV sex.

I wouldn't describe toys, anal etc as being 'vanilla'

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OpiesOldLady · 16/06/2015 21:05

Vanilla = the whole 'making love' thing. And that has it's place and is wonderful.

Not Vanilla = fucking, and for me that's my whole kinky side. I'm a switch, but I'm a sub to my Sir. That's wonderful too. But that involves things which aren't mainstream or considered the 'norm'.

Anyone looking to explore their kinky side should look up FetLife.

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