Hi All,
Once again, thanks for your emails.
I do understand where notapushy and ardone are coming from so let me just clarify a few points.
Whilst Belmont is none of the schools notapushy mentioned, it's considerably better than our local comprehensive in our catchment area and my boy loved the atmosphere there, including the lovely and attentive staff. We don?t live in Barnet, so Wren was a long shot, if you know what I mean. As for social class, I am not quite sure notapushy got it: it does not really bother me what the parents do for a living ? my partner used to be a model maker with works displayed at the British Library, who is now working as a bus driver, so there you go. I tend to relate to people on the basis of who they are and not whether they are cultured or not (although it does help to make conversation and pass the time when all the escape routes have been exhausted at school gatherings!); that does not define their personality, in my view.
You see ardone, we all want the best education for our children and part of that is intrinsically related to our own experiences. Trying to deny that when choosing a school for our little darlings does not sound very truthful to me. Whilst he was at primary school, I always hard parents, especially mothers, saying that ?it did not really matter which school their kids went to?rubbish, just to find out later on that they had all been paying for private tuition since year 3 to try and get their children into the best free grammar schools available, telling me the most outrageous lies when I tried to ask them for help finding a reliable tutor for my boy.
Reading your views on Wren has gone a long way calming my nerves. I am really pleased my boy is not going to end up at a ?sink school?, and let?s be honest, this is ultimately any parents? worst nightmare.