DD1 started secondary this Seot. She is the type of girl that always gives things her best and so when they did cross country running for pe last week she came joint 2nd.
She said that the pe teacher said she needed to join the cross country team, and dd said she didn't want to.
She does like to join in stuff and has already joined the after school gymnastics club, put her name down the school production and is eagerly awaiting the schools arts festival clubs starting. Oh and has just started violin lessons there.
Anyway, when she first told me I said that it was a shame she didn't want to do it if she was good at it, but that it was up to her.
Then she gets a note from this pe teacher with the dates and times of practice. It clashes with gymnastics practice. I told her it was fine, not to worry, just explain that she can't do it.
So, the practice should be today. Dd went out early to try and find this teacher to explain that she can't do it.
I then get a missed call from the school on my mobile, ring them back and they said dd had arrived at school upset because she had to do cross country and she'd not got her pe top. I explained that as far as I was aware it was an after schol thing and i'd told dd she didn't have to do it. The secretary is now trying to find out exactly what happened beore dd went to registration and is going to ring me back.
This is the 2nd time that dd has given me the impession that she feels bullied by the pe staff to join things. Apprantly last week they were all told of for not turning up to hockey club, again after school.
I understand that the school want people to join teams and things, but it isn't as though dd doesn't take part in anything, she just doesn't want to do everything.
I am right in thinking that it isn't compulsary to join these things aren't I ??
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Joining a team, is it compulsary ??
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MrsMorgan · 30/09/2009 09:23
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