One of the only positive aspects of this pandemic has been that I have managed to delay having to think about finding a school for ds1 to go to next. He has just finished yr5 in a independent prep that goes up to yr8; ideally he would go elsewhere from yr9 but could be earlier.
DS1 has ASD, but doesn't have challenging behaviours - just very anxious and copes badly with change, pressured situations and if he thinks he is lost - but does have dyslexia. His work is very erratic, but aside from spelling I don't think he is behind and his potential ability is certainly mainstream level, IQ was about 120 I think when the educational psychologist saw him a while back. He has friends and is not that eccentric, although I think if he might be perceived as pretty odd in a normal comprehensive of the type I went to!
We are in Oxfordshire not that far from Oxford itself and don't really want to move as have jobs here etc, happy to consider boarding/weekly boarding though for the right school. I'm a bit skeptical about that due to the ASD, but the SENCO at his school said that worked in a boarding school previously and they had quite a few similar kids on the spectrum who were fine. His school have made suggestions, but it seems like they have just listed all the schools within about 40 miles that not uber-selective...
Anyone else had to choose a mainstream secondary for a child with ASD? What has worked? Or not worked?
Any suggestions for those with knowledge of Oxfordshire/Bucks/Berkshire/other surroundings would be good too. Thanks.
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FedUpWithCovid · 19/07/2020 15:50
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