Good afternoon everyone!
My 12 yo son has always had quite a complicated personality. We always struggled with his outbursts and aggression towards me and my 13 yo daughter as well as panic attacks. NHS doesn't seem to be willing to get involved much, we were sent to CAMHS some time ago, who said he is definitely not on the spectrum, but never tested him.
My son started secondary school in Sept 2019 and is massively struggling. He came in with second best SATs results in Y7, now slid to set 2 and never passed a Q exam well. School is quite strict, but my daughter loves it. Instead detentions give my son horible anxiety to a point where he cries himself to sleep every night, can't sleep at all and can't eat + has upset stomach. We went to GP and back to CAMHS but they quickly said that it's probably because he's bullied a bit, will go away, he's just adapting. My child has circles under his eyes, complains of depression and is losing weight. I put him on a waiting list to another school, but after 6 months there are still 120 people before us.
I just wonder whether there is ANYTHING i can do to push him forward in the waiting list.. No-one seems to care. School constantly complains about attendance, but he keeps getting unwell because he's physically not feeling good due to anxiety. He keeps getting colds, horrid migraines, all sorts!... He asked to be home schooled, but it's expensive and he's such a brilliant boy, I don't want to lock him up in 4 walls.. I only wish council could be a bit more understanding and move us up the list seeing this is having a massive psychological and physical effect on my child's health..
If anyone has experience with this kind of issues - please do let me know how you went about it. Our school is in Ealing Council.
Thank you in advance!!!
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12 yo has severe anxiety because of school, how to change school?
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MakAttack · 04/02/2020 13:46
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