DS1 started secondary in Sept. He moved from his old, non-academic prep, where he was happy but bored, to a highly selective secondary. Pretty much since day one he hasn't enjoyed it. He seems to be popular and is doing fine academically, but he's just not very happy. He never wants to go to school. He mopes around each morning looking miserable and then gets out of the car like he's going to the gallows. I think the main problem is that his old school has a senior school attached and all his friends went there. It's only him and one other boy from his old school who moved to the new school. We also spent new year away for a week with two of his best mates from the old school and their families and this, while great for him, hasn't helped him to settle back into the new school this term.
So my question is do we speak to the school and see if there is anything they can do? DS1's attitude to the new school isn't that favourable and I'm not sure I want them to know that, but I do want to help him to settle and be happier and I'm sure they've dealt with this before.
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Unhappy DC - when to chat to school?
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zafferana · 09/01/2020 09:18
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