I have a son in Year 7. Since he started he has been bullied by one boy. The school have not taken our concerns seriously and my son has been getting into trouble for reacting to him. Previously, my son had been so good - not one bad mark or punishment the whole time at primary.
My son is doing well in all aspects of school apart from this but it is affecting his daily life and he doesn't want to go in. He does have a lot of friends there and is relatively popular. He finds the lessons really disruptive and there are a lot of classes where the teachers have no control. My son finds this really boring as he likes to work and doesn't muck around in class. Everything he does is commented on negatively by his bully so he feels like he can never relax. The bully tries to humiliate him all the time and none of his friends ever seem to stick up for him.
Anyway, I am worried my son will lose his enthusiasm for learning with all of this going on. Plus I am worried about his safety as the boy bullying him seems almost obsessed with him and does a lot of weird things to try to get him into trouble. On top of this he did something quite dangerous to my son, but because my son reacted they got exactly the same punishment.
The only local school that has a place does not have a great Ofsted (better than the current school's one that went into special measures after my son started). However, I went to see it and I loved it. It was calm and orderly, it's a mixed school which would suit my son better and they had amazing GCSE results last year (but this is the first year of this). We didn't consider this school before as it is a bit of a pain to get to and his current school is local, lots of friends were going there and at the time seemed to be OK.
I feel he would be better in that environment but he would have no friends there at all and I am worried that would really upset my son. No idea what to do. I am taking him to look next week to see what he thinks. If he doesn't want to move what do I do? Do I still send him? I don't want to ruin his life (by taking him away from his friends) but feel I have done that a bit sending him where I did.
Someone please advise me, I can't see the wood for the trees. Feeling like a bad parent.
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beachysandy81 · 10/05/2019 14:44
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