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DS has free access to his iPad 7.30am to 9pm at his boarding school. He uses it for study but can do without as plenty DCs don't have iPad, though they have other gadgets such as laptop, tablet, larger phone. DS has a phone with a tiny screen so usually uses iPad to communicate with friends/family or any research for study.
He has busy timetable but has a break here and there and has a long lunch break three days a week. He seems to play games or watch something on iPad with friends at breaks, not always but often, especially now the weather isn't great.
His lessons/preps finish at 8pm, so 8-9pm is his true free time. He watches a movie or something or skype on iPad when he isn't doing other things (table tennis, football, evening clubs, PS, etc...).
I have no problem with him having screen time once all his lessons finished. But letting him have it through a day...? If he was at a day school he wouldn't have any access to screen daytime - he didn't before starting the boarding school anyway. He has packed schedule so no much time to play with it. But still, wouldn't it be tempting to touch it when you shouldn't if it's accessible? He is only 11.
Actually, I am surprised the school let the students as young as DS to keep gadgets all day. I know a few academic day schools in our area let the pupils have access to their smartphone or bringing iPad is compulsory. But I assume it's harder for the day students to play with it when they shouldn't? Boarders have their bedroom and school wouldn't know how much screen time they spend during breaks?
I would like him to learn self-discipline eventually, but even grown-ups find hard to keep themselves away from their gadgets. I think it's a bit too much to ask for a 11 years old who newly obtains the free access to his gadgets not to be tempted... So I am thinking to interfere by asking the house master to restrict his access during daytime and letting him have it in evenings only. DS says he and his friends like to have it during daytime breaks so thinks I am being unreasonable. But of course he would say that.
What is the screen policy at your DCs' school both day and boarding? Will you let your DCs keep iPad all day at boarding school if it's allowed? I need to do a reality check before taking any action.
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nocturnus · 05/02/2019 10:13
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