DD came home from school yesterday and told me that her and about 5 other children (who she didn’t know that were in other tutor groups) were told by the HOY that they were moving tutor groups and here is your new timetable. My DD walked out in shock where she looked at her timetable and all her classes have changed too.
She is really devastated and spent the whole evening in tears. She is now away from her best friend and other friends that she made in the first few weeks. She was given no reason for it. (And she was too shocked to ask) She said a new girl has started in the tutor group (last week) and the tutor mentioned he has too many in the group now. DD said she is not struggling in the lessons nor has she found it easy. She took a maths and English test and got very similar scores to her friends in the class.
She was so anxious about starting secondary because a girl in her previous class had bullied her, but luckily she was put in a different tutor group and was never in the same class. Now her new tutor group is with this girl and she’s worrying the classes will probably be the same too☹️
She will also have a later lunch setting, so will not even see her friends for lunch.
There have been no issues with DD since she started, her old tutor even emailed me telling me how pleased she was to have DD in her tutor group as she had looked after a few children who were struggling and being overwhelmed. She really liked her tutor and found her really approachable, she has previously met her new tutor during transition and didn’t like him very much.
I called the school, but there was no answer.
I’ve emailed the HOY asking for the reason DD was moved.
I’m just gutted that my DD appeared to have settled in school and now she’s saying she doesn’t want to go.
Anyone with any secondary experience who can offer any advice.
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3 weeks in at secondary school and my DD has moved tutor groups and classes..she’s devastated
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Tinkie25 · 22/09/2018 06:04
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