I wanted to start a thread to chat specifically about the impact of exams on the rest of the family.
We have DS1 doing A levels ad DS2 doing GCSEs so we always knew this was going to be a horrible term, but I think I massively underestimated the way in which exam season would impact me (and to some extent DH too).
Here are some of the ways it's affected me which I hadn't really thought about before:
- the energy required to be constantly 'on call' for any revision crisis/ needing to stay positive to reassure and 'talk up' the DCs confidence when they have a wobble
- feeling responsible for making sure that they eat/ sleep/revise/have downtime sensibly
- DH ranting at me when he comes home and asks about how much revision DS2 has done
- accepting random angry outbursts from the DCs as 'understandable' and trying to ignore
- constantly having to answer questions like "what happens if I don't get my grades and can't go to Uni/ Sixth Form?'
- constantly being required to replenish exam stocks of black pens, protractors, bottled water
- feeling like I need to know DS2's timetable (he has a mild SpLD) to ensure he is always where he should be
I feel totally shattered and wrung out and the exams have only just started.
DS2 came home yesterday after Biology and had an angry rant because "you didn't tell me to revise yeast and fermentation.."
(He did apologise later though)
This morning I woke up with a panic attack as I though DS1 had slept in and he had a Maths exam (he hadn't - he was already up).