Hi
My two eldest are in a well rounded private school, with good academic results and good pastoral care (London).
They are both bright children with different personalities and approaches to learning.
The eldest (13 Yr8) doesn't do much and still excels in some topics (history/ geography/ rp) but doesn't shine in maths and science which is fine by me.
His brother (11yo Yr6) works much harder (eg will be doing his hw till 9pm if needs be) and takes more advantage of what a private school offers in term of clubs and sports.
Our family has been going through a lot recently which has made me change my mind and being less caught up on a lot of things.
I am thinking of moving them to a new free school which is two years old which offers the IB. IB is of interest because of its international aspects as it's unlikely they will stay in England past 18. They have US / European passports and will most likely want to explore universities abroad.
Their father and I are separated and we split the cost, eg 17K each/ year.
The idea is to - at least for the eldest - move him to that free school and put 50/60k for him aside for when he is 18 that he can use for a deposit for a flat/ start a business, etc.
I just think that the money will probably be best spent that way and that if he is meant to do well then he will.
We are still undecided for the 11yo. The 13yo is ok to try.
Their father and I (plus many other people) didn't go to great schools or eve great uni and still did well job-wise. I also have many examples around me of people who went to private schools and are now in not so great jobs.
What are your views on this?
AIBU to want to take that gamble?
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MummyHLondon · 06/05/2018 08:17
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