Firstly I want to ask you to be gentle with me. I appreciate I'm in a very very fortunate position but I'm asking (with a name change) in all seriousness and I'd be so grateful to avoid any posts about my errors or why I should move him to state school etc.
My son attends a highly academic day school where he does really well. He's not top of the class but he more than keeps up with no drama. He has a few good friends and He loves the high level of sport they play and is a great cricketer particularly and plays on most teams in the top 3 which is fab.
He has high functioning aspergers but in many respects you might question the diagnosis as to the outside world he's just a 'normal' (what's normal!) 10 year old shy bright sporty boy. He struggles with things in his life such as literal meanings and has no natural empathy. He is also dyspraxic which surprises people when they see him playing sport.
All of this I tell you for background as I need some advice. His father is from a boarding school back ground. Our son has always felt happier to be at home and that's all great but recently he indicated he might like to board. I don't want to stop him having that opportunity if he'd like it but I'm keen to get advice on where to look. His current school goes to 18 so I can't ask them, and no one leaves - it is really an amazing school but just without the boarding experience.
I'd love to hear thoughts. We went to see Winchester which sits similarly academically but I feel, maybe wrongly, that their pastoral care just won't be good enough. Also all the 'quirky boy's are in college which is fine but our son whilst super bright compared to the average isn't a 'genius' and I think might be lost in college.
I'm just really interested in hearing from people, who don't know us, and aren't experts - just hearing the word on the street! i'm not expecting any definitive answers but would so love to hear thoughts on other academic schools and anyone who has an aspie boy at boarding school and whether the schools are good. His current school could not be better at handling any issues and I have nothing but praise for them. It's just an idea and would love to hear thoughts.
Thanks so much.
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Mumof3inneedofadvice · 23/04/2018 12:47
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