I'm thinking of changing DS' secondary school (yr7 comps). It's a long story..
We are currently top of another school's waiting list (though considering private - his twin is at grammar and loving his school). I want to get the move right and wondered if you get to have a taster day at another comp first or you just have to go for it?
Thanks - I will arrange a visit during the day (not been offered a place but want to be prepared). It's so hard to know if a school is the right fit until you are actually in it and even then things can change.
I would ask the school. Some do have taster days but I think they all have their own rules. The worst that can happen is that they say no. I would have thought the private school would allow it - they seem more accommodating of such things.
You could ask. They might allow your child to shadow another pupil for the day bit tbh waiting lists for oversubscribed schools can be quite political so they might not want your child to look as though they're having preferential treatment. They might also feel it's unfair to get your child's hopes up when they can't offer a place.
Middleoftheroad I'm not sure if I'm getting you confused with someone else but was your son offered a place at a Grammar School but you chose to stay with the comp.?
If so it could be worth placing your son back on the waiting list for that Grammar School. I know that some yr7 places have now become available at one or two of my local Grammar schools. I suspect a few more will be up for grabs at the end of the school year too.
Go for a visit. I moved Ds from a selective to a comp at the end of year 8. I knew it was the right decision by how the teachers spoke to him & how I observed they handled a difficult probably sen student with understanding & tact & not trying to hide stuff.
Middle, maybe you should wait until next term? Ds told me today that someone left his school only last week to go to the grammar your other twin is at! So a space may come up? Have you rung the school this week?
Thanks all - sorry, been at work... Yes, I am she...the one whose school place was taken away in June for no reason and we were forced to appeal (the comp he's now not happy at!) and the one who turned down grammar (because he was happy at the comp at the very beginning). A fortnight after declining the grammar we realised we had made a mistake but it was too late The place was not available again..
Crazy, my son (the other twin) mentioned a new boy had started, will call up tomorrow thanks