Yes, it's not in the top 100, but they are much more inclusive than most schools which are. It fits really well with the ethos of the school and is an important part of its character. It's a school which genuinely focuses on all round education and preparation for life. Yes, it is very supportive of academically able pupils. Everyone is gently pushed, children motivated, staff always make time for parents and pupils. Plus all the usual G&T and academic workshops / tutorials you probably find at most schools. If you want a sausage factory with A* grades from every pupil then it is the wrong school; you should go to Brighton College where they don't tolerate B grades
Pastoral care is really excellent. It's one of the strong points of the school. The bullying policies are very effective and the school are very responsive to any concerns on any matter and they will take decisive action ASAP to fix the problem. I think they try very hard to keep pupils and parents happy and I think parents really appreciate this and it helps create a lot of goodwill between parents and the school. Staff make a real effort to get to know the DC. Even staff who only teach my DC once a week seem to know them very well. I think staff definitely go above and beyond to ensure DC are happy and thriving and parents really appreciate it.
Day pupils fit in very well. I think it's probably about 40% of girls boarding and 60% boys, but that will include the weekly and flexi boarders. I think the day pupils are very integrated since there are many of them. There's also no Saturday school although there are Saturday academic clinics, clubs and matches.
The Music is....decent? Or average? there are a reasonable range of orchestras, events and trips abroad and I can't particularly find fault with the music department, however I think if you were drawing up a list of Public schools known for excelling at music then Ardingly would not be on the list. It's not bad in any way, it just doesn't stand out as being good at music either, although not that many do? Now I've said that, I do wonder if a lot of my viewpoint could just be the school's reputation? I believe about 80% learn an instrument and the music exam grades are good, and I think there was an important music competition of some sort which they won? but it's not something I know a great deal about so I'd definitely ask to have a chat with the head of music to clarify. I'd say the school definitely devote a lot more energy to sports than to the music, drama, dance side of things, though I think this is changing as they've recently recruited a (very good) LAMDA teacher and built a new dance studio. If you really want a school in the area which is particularly strong at music then you should probably look at Worth or possibly Lancing? (Additionally my personal experience has been that the only crap teacher I've ever encountered at the school was a peripatetic music teacher)
I think the families who would not be suited to Ardingly are children who get tired easily and would just prefer a day school type setting where they can go home at 3:45 and crash out in front of the telly. However I doubt many people who choose the school would be looking for that anyway. There's definitely an expectation that pupils partake in lots of extra curricular activities and make the most of opportunities, but again the people who choose the school would see this as a positive rather than as a chore. Children who dislike rules and routine would probably struggle too, though no different from other similar schools I imagine? Also, the school won't spoon-feed or mollycoddle. They'll require a pupil to learn how to be independent, which they'll give support to achieve. I could imagine DC coming from a small school could struggle as the campus is large and bustling. If you're looking for other negatives, I'd say the food is quite basic / mass catered compared to a lot of schools. You're more likely to see chips than canapés! The website also pisses me off. As a new parent I felt as though the parent induction could have been better as I often didn't know the procedures. Also, if DC want to do Mandarin GCSE it's now an additional £1,250 a term, which I think is pretty cheeky!