She's starting in September and up until now I've been incredibly calm, but a couple of things have happened recently and it's just hit me how unsafe she may be.
I've noticed she's getting a lot of inappropriate looks and attention from men and older boys and this is when she's with me and her siblings. She's going to be such a target for sexual assault and harassment when she starts high school and there's Sod all I can do about it.
She has her moments but underneath she's a sweet kid, into cookery and science and stuff. I'm really worried about whats going to happen to her and how it's going to crush her spirit and individuality the way it did mine. When I put her name down for this school it was because the kids there seemed calm and not like typical teenagers, but somehow since she got her place it's all changed and they seem like hooligans, fighting, pushing each other into busy roads on the way home.
It also doesn't help that she's being really left out of her old group of friends recently. Not so much in school but they don't want to know her socially anymore.it breaks my heart that they all live round each other's houses and never invite her. And she doesn't talk about it really, I think she's trying not to let it get to her. I'm worried she's just not going to tell me things any more.
And wtf to do about house keys, mobile phones etc. I don't want her hanging about on the doorstep, but neither do I want to risk someone following her inside. I want her to be able to call me, but I don't want her getting drawn into sexting boys or any other godawful thing.
I know I sound crazy, but how can I sort all this crap out in time for September?
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user1487175389 · 26/05/2017 21:54
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