Hello everyone,
I'm not sure if it's the right place for my concern, but I'll have a try.
I'd like you to tell me if I'm overreacting or if you feel the same.
At the beginning of spring term my daughter (year 8) has been proposed a day out to Chessington with the school. Her tutor told them that they would be "selected" on regard of their BM and absence, which should not be over a certain limit, and only for the second term. My daughter has been very careful all term long about absence and BM.
But she hasn't been "selected" ... and we are not really sure why.
First, she found out that the selection would be done on the first 2 terms. She's been absent but it was authorised absence (she had a flu). We think that the BM are the source... but she got some not because she is a bad work or bad behavior, only because it's been hard for her sometimes. She is introverted, she was new in the school but she succeded having new friends, she is very respectful of her teachers and very hard working...
I don't understand the educational purpose and benefit of such a practice... A Chessington Day Out is not something negligible in the mind of a 12 or 13 year old... I am quite puzzled...
How can a school use such a reward at the risk of provoking a painful reaction from the child for being "rejected"... Am I overreacting ? How would you feel for your child ?
Thank you.
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School Day Out subjected to BM and absence ?
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AliciaBASZ · 15/05/2017 11:12
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