DD started Secondary School this year. She met some girls from another class from her old primary school in July and the friendships, walking to and from school, hanging out together has been lovely and lasted until last week.
Last week DD phoned me to ask for a lift home as out of the blue her friends were all going to watch a fight. Basically another girl from their primary is into boys and her old 'really hard' BF had challenged her new slightly less hard BF to a fight all the 'popular people' were going to watch the fight including her friends who we thought were nice girls. Since then Dd's friends have been walking to school with her but acting hard at lunch time trying to get in with the 'popular people' (the mouthy girls with BF's). At first they ignored DD at lunch time but as the week has progressed they are now excluding DD from sitting at their lunch table and she says they are being nasty but won't say what has been said. Yesterday they went to watch another fight two popular girls fighting over a boy!! Tonight they had been so nasty DD phoned me and asked for a lift home I was off today so obliged. I told her to let the girls know she wasn't walking home say she had an appointment after school which she said as she showed me the text. They (3 of them) then proceeded to phone her asking where she was she had told a white lie saying she had an appointment after school and they continued messaging and calling her, fake crying and laughing asking why she wasn't walking with them and they were upset she was being nasty and wasn't their friend etc. I have told her to move on and keep away find other girls as they are not worth it. WWYD without making things any worse. DD seems relatively ok with it but we are sad for her.
DD has other interests outside of school but has no other friends to walk the mile to and from school with and no other friends to hang out with at lunch time or after school apart from these lot. It is a very popular school so everyone walks in big cliques from our end of town. The girls aren't in her form but she does get lunch breaks with them until Easter hols. Thanks
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The 'popular people' at Secondary School DD getting left behind
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Brighteyes27 · 08/03/2017 23:47
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