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West Kent - Grammar or Private?!

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plantationqueen Fri 24-Feb-17 12:11:33

Hi all,

I find myself in the lucky position of having both a highly ranked west Kent Grammar (Judd) and a green light from Tonbridge School to choose between for my current year 6 son (currently in a boys' prep school). The reality of having to make a decision between this two options will crystallise next week, and I find myself stymied with indecision on which option is best for us as a family and for my son. I am trying not to be influenced by the obvious financial benefits of plumping for a grammar school. I was wondering if any other parents had been in this situation, and if so, what option they went for and why?

Floralnomad Fri 24-Feb-17 12:15:37

My DS went from private to grammar in Kent and it worked well for us , what does your son want to do ?

plantationqueen Fri 24-Feb-17 12:17:07

He doesn't really know tbh - a lot of his friends are going to the grammars, but he changes his mind daily unfortunately!

plantationqueen Fri 24-Feb-17 12:25:00

Floral - could I ask if your son found the change in class size and environment overwhelming?

Floralnomad Fri 24-Feb-17 12:25:54

The way we looked at it , this was many years ago DS is 24 , was that if he started at the grammar and didn't get on / like it we could always find him a private option whereas you couldn't guarantee a move in the opposite direction .

Floralnomad Fri 24-Feb-17 12:27:55

No I don't think he did because on the whole the classroom is still very well behaved , I think the problem would be moving from private to normal secondary where you can't guarantee the behaviour so much .

plantationqueen Fri 24-Feb-17 12:34:55

Thank you - goodness - I wish I could be more decisive!

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