I should start off by saying that I am very much for its DDs life, so its DDs final choice, but as she is very ambitious & determined to go to Med school, I am a little concerned at some of the noises she is making as far as what subjects she is intending to choose next Jan.
She has also missed a considerable amount of school, so hasn't had much experience of some subjects, which does make things even more difficult & stressful for her
The main issues atm is that she is determined to take a photography GCSE - this is in the arts group of subjects. She is raving in about her "passion for photography" which I am just not seeing at all. In the same group of subjects we have others that she excels at & would be very easy GCSEs for her. She does have an aptitude for photography & has won several competitions, including school ones, but in between competition times, the very good spec camera & even the very good phone camera attachments lay gathering dust. Camera might get used for YouTube video making, but shes even lost interest in that lately.
She got very teen angst angry with me when I pointed out that a camera gathering dust, doesn't shout "passion for photography" & now refuses to talk about GCSE choices at all. DH is a photographer, we are both artists of sorts, so the subject itself doesn't bother me. I am just concerned that DD is going in with unrealistic expectations of both the course & herself, when other options would be far less stressful for her & pretty much stress free guaranteed easy pass & stress is a big issue for her.
We have a similar situation with another subject choice group, only this time she is going with a subject she doesn't enjoy at all, has missed practically 2 years of, has no relevance at all to her ideas on future careers, but her skill set could make it easy enough for her as she writes very well & has an excellent memory for facts. Other subjects in that group could be very useful in medicine/science(which is her real passion) & she starts on an even field with everyone else as one is new & the other she has surprised herself by catching up & overtaking her peers in, getting 100% marks in recent tests.
If she wasn't so ambitious, I would worry less about her current stance & that she has now made it clear she thinks its none of our business
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RockinHippy · 09/11/2016 15:59
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