I have a year 5 daughter at a decent state primary. Would like to send her to a private secondary but a local one and we live in west London so it happens that our local private secondaries are ridiculously competitive. DD is bright but not prodigy material. We found a good local tutor who she sees once a week to do practise papers and we talk her through bits she finds difficult. We also encourage her in her extra curricular activities and she swims for a squad and is about to take grade 2 piano.
I was feeling fine about all this until I met some prep school mums this weekend. They were talking about how their daughters will stay an extra hour a day at school every day to do practise papers. How the school does nothing but prepare their kids for entrance exams for all of Y5. How they will do three hours of practise each day in the summer holidays leading up to y6 and how extra curricula is pointless unless you are above grade 4 music or an amazing athlete. These mum's talked about giving up extra curricula stuff so their daughters could study more as really it's only academia that counts.
Is this all true? Is it stupid to think that my nicely rounded DD will do ok with one hour a week tutoring and us encouraging her when she finds things difficult? I suddenly feel v naive as when I wrote this down I feel like of course she has no chance against girls tutored all day every day for a year.
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SummerMonths · 01/02/2016 15:21
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