I have two identical twin boys, they're 9 years old and we've spent almost a year visiting various Public Schools in the hope that we would find one that would be perfect for them both.
As you've most likely guessed that has not been the case. DS1 (older by 17 mins) is out going, cocky, sporty, a big fan of art and only does really well academically because he's competitive not because he loves to learn etc DS2 is more reserved, very bright, also competitive, not big on sports but gets dragged into it a lot, quite opinionated but not blunt or brash, very aware of other people, slightly sneaky.
After getting a short list from the HM and coming up with a list of our own, we went to see all the schools and then went back some more.
DS1 and I adored St Edwards, the pastoral care seemed utterly brilliant, they're big on sports and we spoke to numerous students studying Art at A Level and they adored the school. I love that it's Co-Ed and that the kids can go into town, day students don't outnumber boarders and they can't leave till 9pm so DS1 won't be all alone.
DS2 hated it, it just wasn't for him, so after a few more schools, we went to WinCol, DS2 loved it and it was recommended by the HM for just him, not DS1. I personally would have run a mile away, it was an intellectual hot house, sports was optional after a while and no laptops for at least the first year, everything was geared to academia, not that there's anything wrong with that but I would have preferred a more relaxed environment, but I must admit, DS2 would perfectly fit in, DS1 lasted five minutes before asking if he could wait in the car on our tour.
I don't want to split them up, so our last option is to try and get them both into Westminister as Day students. They're bright enough to get in, Westminster has lots of sports to offer DS1 although he'll be under pressure academically, DS2 doesn't love the school but won't mind going there, if they can stay together.
I don't want to split them up but I don't want either of them to settle for a school when they've already found ones that seem to suit them perfectly.
They don't want to split up but they're only nine and it's clear they both really liked St Edwards and WinCol.
So ultimately would you split up your twins at thirteen years old.
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LolaRedford3030 · 11/11/2015 23:58
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