Looking for wise words to help make a decision about DD2. She is currently at a high performing all girls comprehensive. She is doing well academically but, half way through Year 8, appears not to have any strong friendships. She hangs out with people, but sees none of them outside school. When she texts to ask about meeting up, there is usually no response. In school, they never wait for her, no-one calls her over to sit with them and generally she seems to feel like a spare part. Having seen her older sister also go through secondary school struggling with friendships and feeling excluded, to the point where she self harms and is in counselling, I'm really worried DD2 will go the same way. There is a nearby mixed comprehensive, which is attended by her two best friends from primary school, to whom she is still close. However, it is not as good a school, and I hear very mixed things about it. Most of the transfers of pupils between schools of which I am aware, involve children leaving the school, not joining it! i'm thinking of asking whether she could transfer there, and whether she could join her friends' form, but would I be mad to do so?
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