My child is an August boy, in a grammar school, with traits of ASD (but doesn't tick all the boxes, so no DX)
He is struggling with homework - being organised with it, rather than actually doing it.
He has had 11 detentions since September as he has forgotten to write it down / take it in / do it.
I spoke to his Year Head two weeks ago after DS got two detentions in one day, and he agreed they're not working - he just sees them as part of school life. He has been put on homework report (for the second time). The first time was good, as the teachers made sure he was writing the tasks in it and signing it. That is not happening this time round.
I had a meeting with the Year Head last week and took along a Communication and Interaction checklist. The Year Head complained of things such as DS not looking at him when he speaks to him, and I explained that he won't give eye contact, he just won't. The Year Head was not keen to look over the checklist - I felt he didn't listen to me at all. He said that he had told DS that if he didn't do his homework on time then the school would be entitled to get rid of him, which shocked me at the time and I didn't challenge it. I am a primary teacher and I know that at that level we would work our fingers to the bone to get children through problem areas.
Sorry this is so long. I have another meeting next week with him, where my DS will be present. Any advice on how we can work together as home and school to help him get through this? Head of Year is very shouty (PE teacher ) and not great at listening I would say. I need a list to work through!
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Y7 struggling with homework
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