DD was in an unusual cohort at primary school. Her class had a high proportion of extremely bright girls who were also strong characters.
DD was always one of the 'middle runners'. In a less academically strong cohort she would have been in the top third of the class.
She is now at secondary schoool in year 7. What bothers me is her attitude towards her school work. She just doesn't seem to care about trying to do well and is happy to get low to mediocre grades.
Yet she is actually quite a bright girl. I am beginning to wonder if her self esteem has been knocked by 7 years in a cohort of extremely bright and strong charactered girls? At the time she didn't seem bothered that she wasn't at the top or anywhere near the top of the class. But perhaps it bothered her more than I realised and she gave up trying because she felt she simply couldn't compete with the girls in her class.
Any views would be much appreciated. She also had the disadvantage of being the second youngest in the class amongst a large group of Sept/Oct born girls.
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Beginning to think DD's self esteem was damaged at primary school.
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boxoftissues · 31/12/2014 08:52
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