Apologies, long OP.
DD had a pretty dodgy start to yr 7 - found it hard to settle & make friends, and was bullied by a small group of girls in her form. The school were pretty helpful, and things definitely got better over the course of the year, partly through intervention with the girls, and partly through dd getting better at dealing with them. However she definitely still feels very much an outsider within her form group and in lessons (unhelpfully, there is a very high cross-over between her form and her lesson groups, most of her form are top sets throughout, as is dd). It's a pretty small school (80 in the year) so not much option to move around.
Her social skills aren't great, and she says herself that she finds socialising in a group situation & hitting the right 'note' really hard. She has a few good friends out of school, but it's generally one-on-one or a very small group, IYKWIM. All of these friends, co-incidentally, go to the other local school.
When things were really bad, we discussed the possibility of her moving school - things got better and so it got dropped, but she's really not looking forward to going back, so the idea has come up again.
I'd be interested to know what experiences others have had with socially not-so-great dc moving schools - were they able to get a fresh start, or did all the same problems just come up again? (It's unlikely she'd slip into friendship groups with her out of school friends, they're mainly in older years apart from one who is super-popular.)
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Guiri · 28/08/2014 14:04
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