The good news is that ds has settled in well and made friends.
The bad news is that he is lazy, and cant be bothered most of the time, and I have had stress trying to get him to do anything at all this school year.
His grades are not looking good. Mid year exams were mostly bs and cs. He is in top set for maths, and his grades are hovering in the 60s (75% for maths), but as per the schools percentile system, he is in 3,4, and sadly 5 for most.
He has had dententions for not doing history, geography and science home works. He has told me he has no homework as has done in school. He has made an effort with Maths, and that has clearly paid off as he is doing in well and I dont understand his maths at all.
How much importance do I place on Y7? What is the correlation between his grades now and gcse?
I am in two minds. On the one hand, I want him to have a good education. On the other, he needs to work for it. The grades, and his efforts are telling me that either:
- He has not got the ability to do better
- He cant be bothered
The end result is poor grades, and I am not willing to pay for him to have poor grades and hover just above the bottom of the year group.
So, do I move him out of the independent to our local secondary now, or do I wait until the end of Y8?
Is there a point paying astronomical fees when you have a bright child who just doesnt care?