Hi there
I am in a very stressful situation whereby my daughter didn’t get offered a place at ANY of our preferred secondary schools. They were realistic choices, balancing likelihood of getting in with my daughter’s needs, so I can’t believe this has happened.
I am appealing to our first choice school on social grounds, in that my daughter is having to manage some very upsetting situations in her life that have caused her self-esteem to plummet, and some considerable distress. These have mainly occurred since we applied. The very fact she hasn’t got a school place at all has also upset her to the point she’s having nightmares. So, I’m stating that she needs to attend this particular school in order to provide her with the stability and support network she needs to help her manage the difficulties she’s facing.
It’s the second nearest school to me, and the one she had the best chance at getting in to. It’s also an excellent school, much in demand. We also applied to nearest school, but it’s straight through from 4-18 and had no vacancies whatsoever. Even now, we’re only 24th on the list despite being 2 mins walk from it. So my first choice really was a realistic choice. We missed out very narrowly on distance.
This is going to mean she will likely end up in one of the crap schools that I've already decided aren't suitable for her, and as well as the obvious nightmare of that, it also causes logistics nightmares. She lacks confidence and won’t go anywhere outside by herself. With first choice school I can drop her off/pick her up myself on way to and from work, and she can walk with older girls she knows. But otherwise she will end up on public transport by herself and she simply won't be able to manage that. I am a single parent and have no help available with childcare.
The GP has agreed to write a letter stating she needs to attend this school specifically. Her current headteacher is also writing a letter. I am trying to find a psychologist to assess her with a view to saying the same thing.
So please: does anyone have any experience of appealing on these grounds? Any advice for me? I am looking into everything I can to back this up, and also anything else that might help. Do panelists prefer to see several reasons, or just one solid one? Is this solid enough? I’d be so grateful for any help you can offer. Thanks so much in advance
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