My son is 10 in july - year 5 at a small independent school which goes up to 11.
He is difficult educationally he has flashes of what he might be capable of but in the main his education is hampered by the fact that he does not listen and still does his own thing. ie reversing numbers and letters out of habit and writting a story about something different to what has been asked. Does not work unless it is something he likes. School is trying hard to address these issues and some but limited progress has been made.
School options are 1. highly selective secondary private for which I don't think he stands a hope and teachers agree.
- Outstanding secondary state which friends are going to.
Or 3 move to prep connected to option 1 in year 6 and hope enough improvement made to get into option school at 13 as other private options have similar results to option 2.
2 seems a no brainer but is a child like mine more likely to sink at a school like this or would it make no difference. Class sizes are around 25 and top 2 sets all go to Russell Group.
If option 3 means we burn bridges for 2 as unlikely to get in at 13 and but unless manages to get into 1 will end up going to a private school we would not consider for 11 entry as results no better than state option.
I think crux of it is private more likely to get him more engaged?
ANy thoughts or experiences?