I've always impressed upon Y7 DD the need to do your best and know its your best - that way, the chances are you're always improving and you'll have no regrets, as you'll know you couldn't have done more. However, sometimes I think this works against her, as she'll apply the same principle to draft work as to the final piece. This is most noticeable in Art and DT, which she really wants to be thought good at (she very much sees herself as an artist). She was beside herself last night as something she was trying to draw kept going wrong - she kept saying it looked like something a 2 yo would do (I didn't think it was that bad, but for sure it wasn't quite right either) - and she was only trying to produce a concept drawing. Nothing I could say seemed to help. She certainly has time to fix this, but I'm sure it's because she's desperate for recognition. We've had a few similar dramas and I just wanted to know how others manage it...assuming you have DC like mine!
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WWYD to manage self-pressure to achieve? Sorry, a bit long
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Everhopeful · 05/03/2014 09:22
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