I was just wondering is it really worth it? If your child is clearly not good enough to get in.
I have a close family member who's daughter although quite clever and was tutored to get into a super selective hot house school. which now they have regretted.
Their daughter is an avid swimmer but isnt good enough ....She can play the piano but not well enough. She can not play another instrument. She likes to dance but she is not graceful enough. She was near the top of the class in prep school but now she is not smart enough.
I have seen a bright child with a great outlook on life with many friends become the shunned girl at school.
So the question is.....is it really worth it.....?
She now cries her way to school. Im not sure what happens inbetween but she looks so sad when I have picked her up...
A little retail therapy helps but how much will be needed for her to last 5 to 7 years..But now her Uncle is in Hong Kong ..retail therapy is few and far between as her parents can not afford it.
Im so glad my daughter went to a school with good pastoral care. I think with enjoyment comes learning.
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