I was talking to a friend the other day about her DD's secondary school. A mixed sex comprehensive which has quite a reasonable reputation in our area and gets above average results. She mentioned, sexting, nude pictures of girls getting posted on facebook, smoking outside the school gates, lots of self harm going on (all this among a bunch of 13 years olds) and a general feeling that her DD was lost in a big school and there was no real push to help her achieve academically. She said that all her friends found their DDs secondary schools to be basically the same and she just thought that was how the world was nowadays with the internet and facebook etc.
I don't know if this is realistic or not but I would really love my DD to have a chance to be a child while she still is one. I would like to find a secondary school for her that is small, caring, nuturing and single sex but also good academically. She seems to be pretty academically inclined and I also feel that doing well at school will give her more choices in the future.
I live in South West London, so that would be my preference in terms of location but we have a few years to go so really could move anywhere in the South East of England for the right school.
I would consider state, faith or independent schools. We are practising Catholics but late baptism would rule her out for the schools that use this criteria. Independent school would be a stretch financially but potentially possible. I wouldn't consider boarding school or home education.
If anyone has any good ideas please let me know. Thanks.
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CottonWoolWrapper · 19/05/2013 21:35
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