I've recently become Head of 6th Form at the small school I teach in. I am becoming increasingly frustrated about the situation one of my students has found himself in, and think I need a parent's perspective.
He finished Year 12 last year, and ended up with 2 Ds and an A for AS. The A is in Performing Arts, which he loves. The Ds were a surprise to the Heads of Dept of both subjects - he ought to have got Cs at the least. The only problem we've had with him this year is his attendance - particularly in the last three months of the academic year, his parents pulled him out of school constantly becuase of "family stuff", which involved him having to get the bus 150 miles to see family in another part of the country at a moment's notice, and miss several days of school at a time. His parents took him out of school before the end of term to go to Iran with his dad, where he has spent much of the summer. He came in for A Level results, and then I saw him the following day at a school event and he was very upset about the results, but also about his parents' reaction to them. His parents' response is to say that he is not coming back to us for Year 13, and that he will go "somewhere else" where he will "do better". I have spoken to his mum at length (during my holidays - hmph) but they were, at that point, undecided. From my POV, if he is in school, he will achieve his target grades (clever boy - just too absent) and we will be able to help him with UCAS and so on as we know him well. They are leaving it very late to get him in "somewhere else" as term has either already started or is about to.
I really want the boy to come back to us for Year 13, but since I am also his Performing Arts teacher, AND he has a main part in the school play, which we are half way through rehearsing (due to go on earlier in the year than normal because of planned building work) I am happy to accept that I am a little too involved, and that the parents are only trying to make sure that he does the best he can.
I'm posting here to try to get some parents' perspectives before I pass it up to my HT tomorrow in the hope that she can get through to the parents of the boy more effectively than I can. As far as I know, he wants to come back to school, but his views are not important.
Sorry it's so long! I'd be interested in opions.
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Frustration with Sixth Form Student - need a parent's perspective
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EvilTwins · 04/09/2011 17:30
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