He did not do half as well as he should have (nowhere near what his school predicted) because he didn't work hard enough. I am livid and disppointed and cross with myself for not pushing him harder but I beleived him when he said he had done enough revision (he is super bright but frigging lazy. Now his exam results dont reflect his braininess which is the fffffing frustrating thing).
He can still do the A levels he wants but his GCSE grades will probably adversely affect his chances at uni (he wanted to try for Oxbridge and now that is probably a no-hoper as the current state of affairs I beleive is 7 a and an average grade of almost a, plus A* in maths if you want to do a science - which he does)
I cant decide whether to vent my spleen at him now in the hope he will work harder at 6th form or whether there is no point as we cant turn back the clock and just wait til he gets to 6th form and then lay down the law.
So far I have said 'well done' but not gone overboard with the congrats.
I know he is a bit disappointed but he is so laid back he is virtually horizontal and I dont think he realises that these results (in this highly competitive time) are going to adversely affect his uni chances......
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Do I tell my DS I am disappointed with his GCSE results
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