I really need people’s opinions as my husband in my view is being controlling.
I’m a stay at home mum and have just started an open university degree in psychology. I want to use this to get a decent job when my 2 and 4 year old daughters are older.
My husband has a really well paid job. He gives me money every month and some extra for the children. He has set a food budget. He then pays the mortgage and bills and give himself money.
We have an au pair and I’m currently paying her salary from my savings so I can study and it’s sooooo much cheaper than nursery. My money will end next year and my husband says we can pay for her to stay ‘out of our savings’. He often says ‘we can’t afford an au pair’. I’ve asked to have access to all the money we get but he point blank refuses and says it’s his money.
He plays golf when he wants and we get take away food once or twice a week. He says that’s fine. He goes out with friends (pre lockdown) and buys what he wants.
I just want to know how much money we have so I can see what we can or can’t afford. Am I being unreasonable? Please be honest x
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Studentmum2020 · 02/11/2020 22:24
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