Just that really. Just need to vent I guess. Im a SAHP for now we have a 6 week old and a 2.6 year old boys and they're fab I'm studying midwifery through learn direct so do all my course work at home. DH works night shifts, and I'm so lonely on a night.
He starts at 10PM finishes at 6AM Sunday-Fridau. Sleeps from about 11.00 -6.30 then he sets off at 8.45. he is at home 2 nights a week I barely see him for 6 hours a day. When i do see him we're rushed off our feet with looking after the kids, When kids are in bed we only get 1 1/2 hour together.
Don't get me wrong I love my life and my family dearly. I wouldn't change them for the world but it's so exhausting doing it all on my own. School trips, house cleaning, cooking, EBF.
He's tried and tried since November 2016 for a days transfer, but they say it's not available yet. In November they said 6 month's max. It's been 11 month's and still the same
I know I shouldn't be complaining. It's a FT job. Fantastic pay. And he is a fantastic worker and I'm very happy he brings money in, but by gosh is it lonely