I was getting along fine in my marriage of ten years, or so I thought. Then bank out of the blue I met someone who turned my world upside down. I fell head over heels in love (or so I think, could it be lust) and he loves me, which I do believe.
One minute I can see myself being with om living happily and believing that love will conquer all but then other times I think how can I do this to my dh. Leave him and split our family. We have young children how will this affect them. Am I so so selfish that I am even considering splitting my family. If I stay with my husband will the feelings for om die eventually. At the minute I cant have sex or touch my husband its so unfair me hurting him like this.
I never thought this would happen to me but I belive I love the om and he loves me.
I am waiting for an appt with relate and hope to see things clearer then but would like to hear of anyone who has been in this situation.
I am in absolute turmoil over this.
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howsad · 20/05/2010 11:19
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