DH has been working extra nights, he has just done is third night shift and has another 1 to do, so I am not denying that he is exhausted, but here is my dilemma.
dd2 has a thing about cleaning her teeth at the minute (a good thing to say that a month ago she screamed whilst they were been done), she went to the toilet and decided to clean her teeth, unfortunately this woke dh up, he went to use the loo and she did, what I think alot of kids do, she ran and jumped on the loo. He stormed into the bedroom and slammed the door so hard he has knocked it off the hinges (these are thick hardwood doors).
He came storming downstairs and when dd2 came down and tried to talk to him he started f***g and blinding.
She asked him to move from HER chair (one she has been sat in and reading in all morning) and instead of saying no and asking her to sit in the other chair or with me he has got his money, and stormed out of the house, I have NO IDEA where he has gone, I assume its to spend money we haven't got at the bookies.
My dilemma now is whether to ask him to stay at his mothers tomorrow, they have a spare bed which he could use. I want him to stop there for two reasons, 1 being he can get some sleep without the kids having to walk on eggshells and also I am not prepared to have him upset the kids like this all the time.
I can't take the kids out as I'm not well and at the doctors first thing in the morning.
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MrsBubsDeVere · 04/08/2005 13:09
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